Friends! Recommend that you read a wonderful book SI Lviv "would like to invite you ..." or Speech etiquette ", which will introduce you to the basic rules of the modern Russian speech etiquette, with formulas expressing agreement and disagreement with the failure modes of expression in a request, the rules for using pronouns you and you with etiquette role facial expressions, gestures, tone of voice to use.
Dear participants of the project! Here behind and another school year! And ahead of summer, sun, new adventure and travel, new experiences and discoveries! Hooray! Vacation! How much joy and fun they give us all! With what we all look forward to them! And how quickly they always fly! But do not let the bad news ... After a vacation is just beginning. So, all fun ahead! And on the platform, I think we miss not give, because our project became a member GlobalLab Expeditions. Summer 2014. So we do not say goodbye ... And immediately acquainted with the rules of the expedition. Come on! Come on! Come on! Good luck!
Dear participants of the project! Some profiles indicate that not all of you, unfortunately, understand the meaning of "direct compliment" and "indirect compliment," so I offer you a piece of film from the book SH Golovkin TG Ovsyannikova "Good Word. Parenting speech culture of youth." - M.: "Educational Literature", 2009
Gift can be direct - a statement of a positive trait (You have such a lovely smile, What are your dainty shoes, how do you sing great!). Such compliments are commonly used adjectives, pronouns (such as which one), exclamatory intonation. Direct compliments sometimes called "unpretentious." In its simplest form, they report visual appeal, high intelligence, good physical data interlocutor.
Being indirect ("hidden", "deductive"), has the form of a compliment usually the question of whether a person knows about this sign (for example, no one told you that you have a beautiful smile? Or Who taught you so charmingly laugh?).
Gift can be transferred via a feeling state saying, I am with you always easy, With you I'm not afraid.
Sometimes compliment comprises comparing: None I have not seen such an amazing smile. This may be compared with the authority prestigious personality, with the same person at another time, in another setting, clothes. (At home, you're an angel. Lager you to face). Such a compliment should be done with caution, because opinions on comparable items may differ and may cause a negative reaction. No wonder they say: there is no accounting for tastes, how many people - so many opinions. Therefore compliment - Do you now hairstyle, like ... (followed by the name, the surname of the famous writer, actor, singer, etc.), you can hear - I'm his (her) I can not stand. Not recommended for use in such compliments, comparisons verbs complete, hudit, refreshing, young, old. example: This sweater you slim! (possible assumption interlocutor: "Usually I look overweight, too fat ..." etc).
You can make a compliment "alien mouth", as if from another person. In this case, enhanced the illusion of objective assessment: Did anyone ever said that you have beautiful eyes? I have heard that you dance wonderfully!
Gift - a special form of praise, expression of approval, admiration appearance of man, his manners, which is spoken word. Clad in the polite form, it is always a pleasure. Gift should be light, playful, simple, natural and most importantly, truthful. Very good when pronounced compliment time and place. Said time and dressed in elegant polite form of compliment is always a pleasure. It gives confidence to shy man, helps to open closed, improves mood sad.
Dear friends! Judging by the results of your questionnaires often are subject to compliment the appearance and clothing, as evidenced by the dominance of such compliments: "You look good (wonderful, wonderful), look!" This is really the most commonplace phrase.
It is remarkable that among the first participants in the project have a glorious representatives of France (Marseille). After all, the term "Gift" came up with the French - internationally recognized masters of compliments.
The fact that the project is of interest to many, evidenced by the fact that, published February 20, he and a half months of its existence, has already scored 148 participants, 23 of them expressed their gratitude to the author of the project for its necessity and urgency. Pleased with the fact that the majority of participants (92 people). Believes that "compliment needed and will always exist"; upsetting that a considerable number (46 pers.) believes that "compliment needed, but the culture it fades." And only 2 people believe that "Gift outlived its usefulness, and it's good", and three believed that "Gift outlived its usefulness, and it's sad"; I would like, of course, that in a short time they became convinced that it is not.